その解決策を試してください:
<ListView>
<ListView.View>
<GridView>
<GridViewColumn Header="column1" x:Name="col1"/>
<!--Column that shall resize: Width is set to the Actual Width of the helper field defined below-->
<GridViewColumn Header="column2"
Width="{Binding ElementName=helperField, Path=ActualWidth}"/>
</GridView>
</ListView.View>
Test Text
</ListView>
<!--This is the hidden helper Grid which does the resizing -->
<Grid Visibility="Hidden">
<Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<!--Width is bound to width of the first GridViewColumn -->
<ColumnDefinition Width="{Binding ElementName=col1, Path=ActualWidth}"/>
<!--Width is set to "Fill"-->
<ColumnDefinition Width="*"/>
<!--Correction Width-->
<ColumnDefinition Width="10"/>
</Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<!--This is the hidden helper Field which is used to bind to, using the "Fill" column of the helper grid-->
<Grid Grid.Column="1" x:Name="helperField"/>
</Grid>
次のリンクで他の解決策を見つけることもできます:
http://social.msdn.microsoft.com/forums/en-US/wpf/thread/3ee5696c-4f26-4e30-8891-0e2f95d69623/